The Male Species.

As you know, I've been labeled a player. I would beg to differ, but that's story for another day. How is a girl to know when she's leading a guy on? If the guy hasn't explicitly told me that he's interested, I'm not going to know. I know that guys don't really like being friends with a girl who they're interested in but isn't interested in them. So I need to know, how do you let a girl know that you're interested in being more than friends? Be explicit. All the answers I receive will be compiled into an entry further down the road.

Getting the Blues.

Even though I promised myself I wouldn't, I think I'm getting a slight case of the blues. Why you ask? Because everyone in the world(OK, just at my school) is getting together right before Valentine's day. If you know me, you'll know that I'm not a material person, but I just want that special someone to spend the day with. However, I've come up with a list of reasons to not have the blues.

Players.

Yesterday, one of my male friends referred to me as a player. Now this is not my first time being called a player, but I'm really confused as to why people think I'm one. I'm friends with a lot of guys, mostly because it  is so much simpler to be friends with a guy than with a girl. I hang out at our school's gym where, of course, there are much more guys than girls. And I smile a lot. I don't flirt with people that I don't like. Where is this reputation coming from? Answer me people! What do you define a player as?

Life, Love, Stuff.

So the first week of February has gone by, which means that there is only one more week until everyone's favorite commercial holiday - Valentine's Day! I'm not really hung up on V-day, but a lot of people are, so here's some stuff that's been floating around in my head for a while about love and relationships. Feel free to respond negatively or positively because everyone has a different way of seeing things and I would appreciate your feedback.